Thursday, March 25, 2010

Golden Friday on Thursday

Oh furfriends and hooman-friends, we SURVIVED last week while mom and dad were gone. We missed them so so so so much! We kept wondering if we had done something wrong for them to leave us. Boy were we so relieved when we saw them came back!!!

So, what do you do when your pawrents came home from their vacation?
1) Grab a towel and start whinning..

2) With the towel in your mouth, give them your sad eyes. This will make them feel guilty that they left you.

3) You sniff their jackets to see where they have been.

4) Then you sniff their luggages.

5) Samantha's turn to sniff the luggages.

6) Then you jumped up on the bed and lay next to the big luggage.

7) Check to see if the luggage is big enough for you to fit in. Perhaps next time you will try to fit in there so that they will take you along.

8) When they take their clothes out of the luggage, be sure to sniff them. You can tell a lot by sniffing.

9) June: I know who they have been with.

10) Samantha: I think I know where they have been.

11) If you are not sure, sniff closer.



Note from mom: I know some of you have adopted one or more dogs in your lifetime before. Does anyone have any experience with dealing with abused dogs before? We adopted June and we think(from the way she acts around other people and sometimes us) that she must have been abused before. She is very afraid when around other people. It's tough for us to travel without the dogs because she doens't take it well when we are not around. My stepson told me that she just hid in the bedroom or bathroom almost the whole time, only came out when she needed to go outside. She wouldn't really eat, luckly I bought some canned food for her, so she ate some. When we got home, I could tell that she was mad at us or something because she came out, let us pet her for a few seconds and right back into the bedroom/bathroom she went. We do not dare to board her, for fear that it may traumatise her. Any idea how we can help her cope?

Note 2 from mom: Do you think your pets will get so stressed out that they get sick(like humans will sometimes get coldsores when they are stressed out)? I noticed a sore on June's lip(Friday evening when we got home) and took her to the vet on Tuesday. She has an infection and a slight fever. She is now on antibiotics.

15 comments:

CrossView said...

Those two girls look happy to have you home! But man, I bet you have some major guilt!

Sorry I can't be of any help re: note 1 and 2. But I will be interested to read what others say...

Maxmom said...

Hey there!
You guys look so happy to have the peeps home!
Sorry...can't help with the advice!
Just wanted to pop by and see how you were getting along and to send lotsaluv and lotsalicks
MAXDOG IN SOUTH AFRICA

wvfarmgirl said...

Cody was the same way when I got him many many moons ago. He'd just tremble in fear if I left him with a friend. I have three suggestions.

1) get a house/pet sitter and let the girls stay home while you're gone. It would be even better if the pet sitter was someone they were familiar with.

2) Take the girls with you when you visit the person that's going to take them while you're gone. Visit often, and make it lots of fun for both the girls and feed them while they're there. Eventually, they'll look forward to going and won't be so traumatized when you leave them behind.

3) Try a couple of days a week of daycare. Find a great kennel with lots of turn out and other dogs that your girls can play with. I used to work PT at a great kennel and most dogs that came for day care jumped out of their cars and came running into the kennel on their own! They were so excited to be there that they couldn't wait to join their buddies and didn't always want to go home.

Good luck!

Thor and Jack said...

Glad your peeps are back girls!

Sorry we can't help you with those questions.
Hope June feels better soon!

Thor

Mrs. JP said...

The main thing and also the hardest thing is not to reward (by petting or sympathizing with) that behavior you don't want. We first saw this with Daisy who had separation anxiety while we went away just for short times. She'd chew baseboards, anything to pacify herself. Our trainer told us to pretty much ignore her when we came in at first. They will get your message. Whether "poor you = continue to misbehave" or "it's no big deal = i have no reason to freak out." We later saw this same advice on Cesar Milan's show "Dog Whisperer."
I agree with wvfarmgirl. Get them out and meeting people as much as you can. Even go to the dog park or walk out in public to socialize her. Also, the petsitter idea is good and doggie day.
The main thing is don't pay attention to her when she does this around you and make her a little social butterfly!
Oh, poor her. I'm so sorry for you and her that she's not happy with others, I know it's a burden. She's lucky to have a great family. sorry this was so long.

Lena said...

Oh happy reunion! :-) Bet you girls smelled Kane on mommy and daddy's jeans! :-)
I agree with Mrs JP and wvfarmgirl. As much as you want to be sympathetic....you are rewarding her behavior. When you take her out - take her when she's hungry and have the people you meet be treatmachines (you bring the treats). Tell them to not pet her or make eyecontact but let her sniff them and make the first move. They can hold out treats without petting etc. If she doesn't get along with other dogs, don't do the dogpark thing.
And yes, animals can get sick when their routines change. My cats used to get UTIs when I travelled.
Good luck - you can overcome it! And so can June!

animal lover, quilt lover said...

I think Bambi had been abused by one of her homes before her forever home here. She was deathly
afraid of men and pick up trucks.
Her Dad here has a pick-up truck!!
So the first 7 months were very hard on my hubby b/c he loves dogs.
It takes a lot of work to show them that what they are afraid of is not bad. In your case it probably will take longer. You will have to have her around people, one at a time at first. Take it slow with a new person. One preson at a time until she is happy around that persen. Then another one. Take it slow!!! Then the two of them. Remember to move forward only when she is comfortable.
WE can talk about it more another time. Feel free to e mail me or in the comments of my blog anytime.
I am happy to help if I can.
Hugs, Fern

1000 Goldens said...

They are so sweet, loved the photos and videos. We are so sorry June had a hard time. We've had Farley since he was a puppy and we tried boarding him two times. Both times he went on a hunger strike, and also came home with a rash on his tummy. I do think they are so tender hearted they can make themselves sick the way people do when they are worried.

I've also read that they are like little kids, in the sense that they like routine, and when something changes in their routine it can shake them up? So maybe she missed you so bad she was afraid and decided to hide?

Sorry she had a hard time :(

NAK and The Residents of The Khottage Now With KhattleDog! said...

How nice to see GOLD today!

Mom and I understand your khoncerns - sorry, she doesn't have any advice about how to help but love khan't hurt ;-)

I would think she did stress out and khause the sore too - we khanines khan be khreatures of routine and if something isn't khwite what is usually is...

Mom says to paw woo that her transport on Easter weekend is to be.....a GOLDENHUSKY - Buddy is soooo handsome! He's got blue eyes with all the things that make Goldens GOLDEN!

Hugz&Khysses,
Khyra
PeeEssWoo: Mom also saw one of our neighbourhood red tails khruising ovFUR the golfkhourse yesterday morning - he/she looked AWESOME!

Meeka said...

I grab either the tv remote or slippers when they arrive even if they were gone for only two hours.
Hope you feel better, June.

Golden Woofs! SUGAR said...

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♥♥ The OP Pack ♥♥ said...

We see you have received lots of good suggestions from your commenters. We always board ours when we are away and we board at our vets place. It isn't the most luxurious but we know they are in good hands. If we had the option of leaving them at home with a sitter they know and we trust, we would do that for sure. It may take time for June to come around, but maybe you could even try just short day trips to get her accustomed to the sitter and then gradually build up to a week. Our pups don't eat as much when we are away and when we come home, they only want to sleep for a couple of days.

At least they both look very happy to have you home now. Snooter smoochies to them from us.

Happy Friday.

Woos - Phantom, Thunder, and Ciara

Augie and Ti's mom said...

Oh poor June! I feel sorry for the poor dear. No words of wisdom, but sending a hug!

How Sam Sees It said...

The best thing you can really do is give them some time before hand to acclimate to the sitter. Have the sitter come over while you are there and fuss over June, then all of you take walks together (they can be short) and have the sitter walk her. It isn't easy, though. As for getting sick - yes! Sam has gotten terribly sick when we have left him - even for a day procedure at the vet. He works himself up so badly!

Sam

Sam

My Sons Mum said...

Yes we d get traumatised and sick and depressed and more! Mum is sure some man must have mistreated me cause i dont trust men at all, except for my Dad. xx major